RP:]] PIRATES OF THE QUEERABBEAN

Captain Syn wrote:

[[Yay for success!

But poor Jo.
That's pretty shit.
I'll have to come see you guys before she goes, just an attempt at cheering her up a bit.
I wish I lived closer, she could sleep on my floor, heh.]]

((I know. I really do feel sorry for her.
I don't want her to move. I lost one best friend this year, I really don't wanna have to loss another one.
She feels that her family don't like her or care about her.
Who wants that?
Yeah. That might be an idea.
Haha, yeah, I wished you lived closer too. It would make some things a hell of a lot easier.))

[[
I'm sure you two will stay in touch though, even if it is only using the web and phones and seeing each other occasionally.
I mean, I have to travel two/two and a half hours to see my best mate and we still see each other a lot - she moved away three/four years ago and we're closer than we ever were, so it's not impossible to keep a friendship.
I think her mum's being very selfish doing this now.
I mean, she's got a place in college, she's settled and now she's dragging her away?
It's bullshit.]]

Captain Syn wrote:

[[I'm sure you two will stay in touch though, even if it is only using the web and phones and seeing each other occasionally.
I mean, I have to travel 3 hours to see my best mate and we still see each other a lot - she moved away three/four years ago and we're closer than we ever were, so it's not impossible to keep a friendship.
I think her mum's being very selfish doing this now.
I mean, she's got a place in college, she's settled and now she's dragging her away?
It's bullshit.]]

((Yeah, I guess. But I really never go well with long distance. Well, I never used to. I mean, I never kept in touch with any of my old friends from when I was about 10. But it might be different now, cos I'm older. I don't know.
I know, it is complete bullshit. Me and Jo were saying today, it wouldn't have being so bad if she had decided to move at the start of the holidays, or while Jo was still in school. But, yeah, now, it's just plain selfish.))

[[Well for starters you're going to see each other on here, so you'll definitely talk. LoL.
Then you've got MSN and suchlike.
I'm sure you'll keep in touch.

Yeah, that's what I thought too.
Do we even know why she's so keen to move all of a sudden?]]

Captain Syn wrote:

[[Well for starters you're going to see each other on here, so you'll definitely talk. LoL.
Then you've got MSN and suchlike.
I'm sure you'll keep in touch.

Yeah, that's what I thought too.
Do we even know why she's so keen to move all of a sudden?]]

((It's true. But, it's not the same, you know.
We are finally becoming indepedent. And to be honest she is my only real true friend. And I want to go to clubs, gigs and such with her because I trust her. If I was to make new friends, it takes me a while to trust people so... I don't know. I just want someone here, you know. I mean, I don't even really trust Emma yet. That's how long it takes for me to trust or become friends with someone.

I think it's because she gets bored with the house. She doesn't work you see cos she's gotta look after Jo's sister, who is disabled and doesn't go to school, so she has no comitments to the place and she can just up and go if she wants cos it doesn't matter to her. She doesn't seem to care that Jo is really the only person in the family that has comitments to the area and it's selfish and bad parenting in my opinion.))

((*Cries so much*
THIS ISN'T FAIR!!
I AM NOT BEING SELFISH!!
LIKE MR PAIGE SAID THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT TIMES IN MY LIFE!!
I NEED TO MAKE MY OWN DECISIONS AND CHOICES!!
I CANT JUST HAVE IT ALL RUINED!!!
*CRIES*
*WIPES EYES*
I CAN NOT MOVE NOW!!! I HAVE FINALLY GOT MY LIFE SORTED!!!
MY MOM JUST SAYS I WAS BEING SELFISH. WHICH I AGREED TO. I AM. THIS IS MY LIFE. AND THEY ARE RUINING IT!!! I DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT THEIRS. THEY DONT HAVE ONE! THIS IS IMPORTANT NOW! I HAVE A FUCKING LIFE, I HAVE PLANNED OUT THE NEXT 5 YEARS OF MY LIFE ALREADY AND NOW THATS ALL FUCKED UP BECAUSE OF THEM!!! I AM GROWN UP AND I CANT JUST MOVE NOW!!!
I AM NOT MOVING AND LEAVING MY LIFE AND FRIENDS BEHIND!!
I WANNA GO TO SOUTHDOWNS! I LOVE SOUTHDOWNS! SO MUCH!!
MY MOM WAS LIKE "THIS ISNT MY FAULT!" AND I WAS LIKE YES IT IS!!!! AND THEN SHE SAID "FINE, THATS IT THEN, IF THIS IS ALL MY FAULT THEN THATS IT. YOU ARE COMING. YOU ARE GOING TO AN IOW WIGHT COLLEGE..." BLA BLA BLA
*CRIES*
HOW THE FUCK CAN THEY DO THIS TO ME NOW?!?!?!?! HOW?!?!??!!
*SCREAMS*))

((*Breathes*
*Calms down*
*Breathes*.))

[[Yeah, I get where you're coming from.
Because I'm the same.
I don't have many friends in real life - in fact I probably only have Tigger.
I mean, I talk to my sisters friends but they're more my sisters friends, it's not like I can just ask them to come out somewhere without her, y'know?
I did have friends but after they totally forgot about me on my birthday, fuck 'em.
I'm sure you'll be able to work something out, even if you have to get Jo to you to go to gigs and shit together.

That's a load of crap.
I mean, yes, she may the the adult and main voice in the house but that doesn't mean that she should always get her own way.
It's pretty heartless. ]]

((My face burns.
I hate being like this. I hate being angry and emo and stressed.
It isn't me. At all.
*Breathes*
Does anyone have any solution? Coz I'll love them forever if they do.
Even though I am sure there is no solution.
Other than Emma's one of burning down the house.))

Matty wrote:

((*Cries so much*
THIS ISN'T FAIR!!
I AM NOT BEING SELFISH!!
LIKE MR PAIGE SAID THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT TIMES IN MY LIFE!!
I NEED TO MAKE MY OWN DECISIONS AND CHOICES!!
I CANT JUST HAVE IT ALL RUINED!!!
*CRIES*
*WIPES EYES*
I CAN NOT MOVE NOW!!! I HAVE FINALLY GOT MY LIFE SORTED!!!
MY MOM JUST SAYS I WAS BEING SELFISH. WHICH I AGREED TO. I AM. THIS IS MY LIFE. AND THEY ARE RUINING IT!!! I DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT THEIRS. THEY DONT HAVE ONE! THIS IS IMPORTANT NOW! I HAVE A FUCKING LIFE, I HAVE PLANNED OUT THE NEXT 5 YEARS OF MY LIFE ALREADY AND NOW THATS ALL FUCKED UP BECAUSE OF THEM!!! I AM GROWN UP AND I CANT JUST MOVE NOW!!!
I AM NOT MOVING AND LEAVING MY LIFE AND FRIENDS BEHIND!!
I WANNA GO TO SOUTHDOWNS! I LOVE SOUTHDOWNS! SO MUCH!!
MY MOM WAS LIKE "THIS ISNT MY FAULT!" AND I WAS LIKE YES IT IS!!!! AND THEN SHE SAID "FINE, THATS IT THEN, IF THIS IS ALL MY FAULT THEN THATS IT. YOU ARE COMING. YOU ARE GOING TO AN IOW WIGHT COLLEGE..." BLA BLA BLA
*CRIES*
HOW THE FUCK CAN THEY DO THIS TO ME NOW?!?!?!?! HOW?!?!??!!
*SCREAMS*))

[[
It's bullshit, that's what it is.
How is this not her fault?
It's not like she can't control where you all live.
So she's bored, she should suck it up so you can sort your life out.]]

((God sake. That twin-ness again. Haha.
Yeah. I guess. Hopefully I will make more friends in college anfd work. But, not have a best friend. I don't know.

It is shit. Every adult in the house should get a say in my opinion. I mean, if you have to live there. Then you should have a say in the big changes. That's how it is in my house anyway.

Jo. Be stressed. Be angry. We aren't going to hate you for it. It's like you can control your emotions. Let it out, seriously.))

((
My mom has done this all my life.
I have lived in over twenty homes.
I guess it was different then, I didn't care so much.
But now I do, I have made the best friends I have ever had here, I have sorted my whole life out, and I have finally gotten everything sorted and now I have to move.
At like, the worst possible time.
Holy shit my mom hasn't even seen the new house yet!!!
She is being so... AHHHHHH
*Punches pillow*
Alex did say I could live with him. Maybe I should just do that...

My mom even made the suggestion of me not going to college. I was like ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?! I AM NOT SACRIFICING MY EDUCATION FOR THIS!!!!
*Screams*))

Matty wrote:

((My face burns.
I hate being like this. I hate being angry and emo and stressed.
It isn't me. At all.
*Breathes*
Does anyone have any solution? Coz I'll love them forever if they do.
Even though I am sure there is no solution.
Other than Emma's one of burning down the house.))

[[You've just got to explain it to her.
I mean, yes, I'm sure you already have but it's the only thing I can think of.
Try and calmly explain that you've got things sorted and you know what you want to do with your life and by moving, it's ruining that.
Explain that moving to a new place, on top of starting a new college is just going to stress you out and is going to jeopardize your college work and hinder your grades.
And if she doesn't listen to that, we'll burn the place down.]]

((Question. Why can't they mover somewhere else? Like Southampton? Portsmouth? Warshaw? Fareham? Hambledon? Waterlooville?
Why the Isle? And if it's because that whole "Your Dad needs to get work." Well, if he tried harder and broadened his horizons and work outside of Portmouth. Maybe he'd get some business. Oh and... since when do all the people in IOW need plasters. THEY NEED THEM HERE TOO!!!))

Matty wrote:

((
My mom has done this all my life.
I have lived in over twenty homes.
I guess it was different then, I didn't care so much.
But now I do, I have made the best friends I have ever had here, I have sorted my whole life out, and I have finally gotten everything sorted and now I have to move.
At like, the worst possible time.
Holy shit my mom hasn't even seen the new house yet!!!
She is being so... AHHHHHH
*Punches pillow*
Alex did say I could live with him. Maybe I should just do that...

My mom even made the suggestion of me not going to college. I was like ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?! I AM NOT SACRIFICING MY EDUCATION FOR THIS!!!!
*Screams*))

((I knew that would happen. I knew she would say that!
It's just because all your other sisters probably didn't give a shit about college or their education so she's like meh about her kids doing well.
And another thing, she thinks you are gonna be like her, and sponge off the state, not work, not go to college and be like her. When the fact of the matter is you are nothing like her.))

((She's on the phone talking about me now. Grrrr.

And coz they love the IOW. *Shrugs* Pretty much.

And I have told her everything. And repeated myself several times. She just says "sorry, there is nothing I can do, you have to come, unless you find your own solution..."
WHICH DOESNT EXIST!!!!!!
I. Can't.Move.Now.
Pretty much.
We looked at ferry and trains. It'll take about three hours each way.
Which, is ridiculous really.
I kept mentioning living by myself, considering my sisters did when they were my age.
To which they were like NO.
And ithink my mom iscoming here... ekk.))

((GOD DAMMIT!!
She is on the phone to another college.
))

((Your sister probably lived by herself and didn't go to college and worked like crazy. You don't really want to do that, do you?
There is something she can do. NOT MOVE! If it was easy enough for her to think about moving and then finding a house, she can always pull out of it. IT'S NOT THAT HARD!))

[[The best you can do if she does move you away is do the best you possibly can.
She'll expect you to be all resentful and suchlike.
Don't give her the satisfaction.
The best revenge is success.
Do the best you can in college.
Be as successful as you can possibly be.
And then let her know it's because you wanted to be and she has nothing to do with your achievements.]]

Jacoby wrote:

((Your sister probably lived by herself and didn't go to college and worked like crazy. You don't really want to do that, do you?
There is something she can do. NOT MOVE! If it was easy enough for her to think about moving and then finding a house, she can always pull out of it. IT'S NOT THAT HARD!))

((She did.
But didn't work like crazy, she just stayed home. Looked after her kids.
Emma says I could stay with her for 5 days fo the week on her floor.
I dont think that could work much though. =/
I dont know.
And now I have my fucking sister yelling at me and calling me selfish.
Right now... I dunno. I just wanna run away or something.
I don't think that would work though. Haha.))

((I wanna move out as soon as fucking possible.
I hate living here. I hate living with my parents where I constantly have to clean and do stuff for them.
I have never had a normal life. Whenever I fucking finally settled into somewhere I had to move away.
It's so unfair.
I just wanna... scream a lot. And burn down the house. And kill everyone.
That's what I wanna do.))

Matty wrote:

Jacoby wrote:

((Your sister probably lived by herself and didn't go to college and worked like crazy. You don't really want to do that, do you?
There is something she can do. NOT MOVE! If it was easy enough for her to think about moving and then finding a house, she can always pull out of it. IT'S NOT THAT HARD!))

((She did.
But didn't work like crazy, she just stayed home. Looked after her kids.
Emma says I could stay with her for 5 days fo the week on her floor.
I dont think that could work much though. =/
I dont know.
And now I have my fucking sister yelling at me and calling me selfish.
Right now... I dunno. I just wanna run away or something.
I don't think that would work though. Haha.))

((So your sister got money from the state cos she had a child.
You are not being selfish. You are being an adult and making your own decisions in life. You are growing up. What did they think? That you would never grow up, being their little girl forever?
Actually, yes, they probably do because that's what your mum was talking about this morning.))

Matty wrote:

((I wanna move out as soon as fucking possible.
I hate living here. I hate living with my parents where I constantly have to clean and do stuff for them.
I have never had a normal life. Whenever I fucking finally settled into somewhere I had to move away.
It's so unfair.
I just wanna... scream a lot. And burn down the house. And kill everyone.
That's what I wanna do.))

((Do it then.
I won't stop you.))

((It's in six fucking weeks as well.
We'll be moving to a place that is pretty shitty. It's posh and rich and that was always the problem about the IOW.
All my friends were rich and all that.
And when I went, I saw NO ONE like me. They were all chavs and normal. There were so many fucking NORMAL people there, with no particular fashion sense. Just goodie-goodie normal's.
There were loaaaaadsa metalhead boys though.
But still.
GOD DAMMIT!!
Seriously, when I am older I am fucking moving AWAY from my family and become a huge success somewhere away from them.
SERIOUSLY.))

Matty wrote:

((It's in six fucking weeks as well.
We'll be moving to a place that is pretty shitty. It's posh and rich and that was always the problem about the IOW.
All my friends were rich and all that.
And when I went, I saw NO ONE like me. They were all chavs and normal. There were so many fucking NORMAL people there, with no particular fashion sense. Just goodie-goodie normal's.
There were loaaaaadsa metalhead boys though.
But still.
GOD DAMMIT!!
Seriously, when I am older I am fucking moving AWAY from my family and become a huge success somewhere away from them.
SERIOUSLY.))

[[You've just got to hold your head up high and be proud that you're an individual.
Be proud of who you are.
Never let them change you.
And I have no doubt you'll be a big success, you've got the drive and determination you need.]]